Premature Ejaculation” Prevalent but Poorly understood- Part 10

Conclusion

Premature ejaculation is one of the most common sexual problems in men. The condition is most often described as being an inability to delay ejaculation to a point when it is mutually desirable for both partners. The definition of when ejaculation is premature is subjective. While some men have difficulty controlling their orgasm before entry, females think 1-5 minutes of copulation is too little time (women like to have the time increased to at least 15-30 minutes). How long a man is able to last is not the important factor in diagnosing premature ejaculation. The crucial issue is if both partners are satisfied with the length of coitus.

In some cases, premature ejaculation may be caused by poor communication between partners and unrealistic expectations. Many men and women have little knowledge of their partner’s sexual needs and what satisfies them. Women typically require more foreplay and prolonged stimulation than men do to reach orgasm, and this lack of understanding causes tension and undue stress. For many men, feeling anxiety and the pressure to perform frequently leads to premature ejaculation. Drug treatment is not always the answer, and a visit to a psychologist or sex therapist may help resolve the problem.